Where was your first time?

Sometimes, you need a good misleading title.

No. I’m not talking about that. Not only is that private, my husband would kill me. We’re both a little old school in that department.

So what first time am I talking about?

Where was the first time you met your husband/wife/significant other?

I have always been interested in relationship stories. I love the first meetings, especially when one wasn’t interested in another. Or they met at a random place. Even the meetings while dating someone else. I don’t condone cheating in any way, but sometimes, you realize you’re with the wrong person when you find the right one.

Also, I would love to know how meeting someone in a bar happens. Mr. A and I met before we were legal in bars, and in our dry county where we went to college, not many bars anyways.

While I’ve told the story of how the husband and I met at the gym through his fraternity brothers, there’s more to it.

We went to dinner the next night, and yes, we have been together ever since. But we weren’t instantly boyfriend and girlfriend. We hung out in the library together, working on homework, more like I was in awe that this super cute boy wanted to hang out with me.

I have later found out, that the first time he took me home to meet his mom, step-dad, and brother, his mom had threatened the other two to behave and not screw it up. I told you how awesome my MIL is, right?

There was the fraternity St. Patty’s day party. The first real fraternity event that we attended together. Yes, I already knew every guy, but it was a little different to be there with a date. I’d walk off to talk to someone and no more than 10 minutes later, he was right next to me again. He wasn’t following in a clingy way, just checking on me and such. It was adorable.

Man, we are young. So glad his hair doesn't look like that, and no clue why his collar is popped. We were young...

(He would die if he saw this. But wow, we were young…This was at that St. Patty’s Day party.)

This was the Thursday before Spring break started.

He came up to, what I thought, visit his big brother in the fraternity, who happened to live in the same city as I do. I was working, but we hung out when I would get off or on my days off. I was clueless that he only came to hang out with me. It snowed on this spring break, and the poor thing only had short sleeve polos, so we had to go and buy him a jacket.

When I returned to school that Sunday, which was the day before my 19th birthday, he and I were talking about us. I told him that my friends were asking about us and what we were. He wanted to know what I was telling them. I said that it seemed like we were together, but maybe not official. I asked what he was telling his friends and he said that he would be telling them I was his girlfriend. This was his sly little way of saying we were “official”.

(I’m about to reveal how young we are. Oh, well.)

I then went to the restroom, and when I came back, he was on the computer. I asked if I could check my e-mail, and when I did, I had a Facebook notification. My class was the first class to have Facebook from the start in college. You know, the days when only college students could get it?? The cute, shy, adorable boy had requested to be my boyfriend on Facebook, to make it really official. (How did people know if others were really dating before this invention? So weird. And yes, I’m showing how young I am. Get it.)

We may have first met in a gym, but there were lots of other “firsts” and hang outs before we became what blossomed into us today.  First time he held my hand started with us interlocking pinkies while watching a movie. He tells me he was so nervous. First kiss in his dorm room, and he was shaking like a leaf.

He is still that sweet and shy 19 year old college freshman who gets nervous when something new comes up. He shook at our wedding just like he did when he first kissed me and told me he loved me. He’s my best friend.

Enough about my mushy relationship. How did you two meet? Was it funny? Was it love at first sight, or did you have to learn to like each other? Who chased who?

These are my favorite stories.



Filed under Happy little posts

8 responses to “Where was your first time?

  1. Oh my gosh, you guys are adorable!

    I may have to blog my relationship with the mister. I love hearing those too!

    But I will tell you something – when Husband proposed, we announced our status change on FB not more than 10 minutes later, after we told the parents. It was pretty awesome.

  2. Sarah

    What a sweet story!

    B and I met at a party for a mutual friend. He knew her through his friends and I knew her from studying abroad the semester before. He was really drink, but I still thought he was cute. I told my friend as we were leaving “That B guy would have been really cute if he wasn’t so drunk.” He added me on Facebook and we talked a little on there and then decided to hang out one night. I wasn’t too sure about him when we first started hanging out–I wasn’t sure what he was looking for and whether or not he was just another drunk fraternity boy. But then we had our first real date and he completely changed my perception of him. We also had the Facebook-official moment in our relationship. lol

  3. Adam and I met on accident really. My friends picked me up from the airport and said they were taking me to a bar. Little did I know they had sort of also invited Adam to secretly hook us up.

    We talked, we drank, we danced, and I took him home. 🙂

    In the morning we all went to breakfast and it turned out I sort of liked this new stranger.

    We hung out every night that weekend, including new years eve, and before we knew it we couldn’t stop spending time together.

    Not the classiest story, we met in a bar, but it works, and it’s us.

  4. Oh that is such a sweet story! I love stories where people have been together since they were young!

    Dan and I met at law school and he asked me to work on a project with him. We met for what was supposed to be a couple hours and instead stayed until midnight talking to each other about everything but the project.

  5. Cute story! Ryan and I met in law school. We actually met at a law school party during our first year – I thought he was cute, but I had a boyfriend. The following year, I’d broken up with the boyfriend and I started noticing Ryan around school. We had some classes together and we chatted here and there. Finally he asked me to a Cardinals game “with friends” (I thought it was a law school thing, not a date). I said no twice, but ended up going. Thank goodness I did! I fell in love that night! 🙂

  6. Jamie

    This is so cute!!! We are both politicos and met during the 2008 election in D.C. To me, it will always be the perfect setting ❤

  7. I can’t believe I didn’t comment on this the first time around. We met in 8th grade in Spanish class, but we didn’t talk. He dated my best friend in 9th grade. And then took another good friend to the Valentine’s Dance in 10th grade. Started hanging out and eventually dating senior year!

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